Increase Positive Emotions (Long Term)Emotion Regulation DBT Tool

Increase Positive Emotions (Long Term)


Definition


Increase Positive Emotions (Long Term) is a skill from the Emotion Regulation module of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) that focuses on building a life worth living by creating a sustained sense of fulfillment, satisfaction, and meaning over time.


Purpose


Used to:

  • Reduce vulnerability to negative emotions and depression.
  • Develop habits that bring ongoing joy and satisfaction.
  • Support long-term mental health and resilience.
  • Foster a sense of purpose and accomplishment.

When to Use


Use this skill when:

  • You feel empty, numb, or directionless.
  • You are ready to invest in long-term improvements.
  • You want to create a more meaningful and satisfying life.
  • You feel stuck in chronic dissatisfaction or boredom.

When Not to Use


Avoid using if:

  • You are in acute crisis or overwhelmed (use distress tolerance first).
  • You lack basic safety or stability (e.g., housing, sobriety).
  • You need immediate relief from intense distress.

How-To


  1. Identify Values:

    • Reflect on what matters most to you (e.g., family, learning, health).
  2. Set Long-Term Goals:

    • Break down big dreams into clear, manageable objectives.
  3. Make a Plan:

    • List steps to move toward your goals.
  4. Act Consistently:

    • Schedule regular actions that align with your values.
  5. Track Progress:

    • Notice small successes and adjust plans as needed.
  6. Reward Yourself:

    • Reinforce positive steps with encouragement or treats.

Tips & Variations


  • Be specific—vague goals are hard to achieve.
  • Celebrate progress, not perfection.
  • Pair this skill with Build Mastery to develop competence.
  • Use a journal or app to monitor goals.
  • Expect setbacks—it’s normal. Problem-solve instead of quitting.

Example


Maria valued creativity and connection.

  • Values: Creativity, helping others.

  • Goal: Volunteer to teach art.

  • Steps:

    • Research local nonprofits.
    • Apply to volunteer.
    • Schedule first class.
  • Outcome: Over several months, Maria felt more fulfilled and proud.


Inventor / Origin


Developed by Marsha Linehan, PhD, as part of Dialectical Behavior Therapy’s Emotion Regulation skills.


Related Skills


  • Build Mastery
  • Accumulating Positive Emotions (Short Term)
  • Cope Ahead
  • Mindfulness of Current Emotions

Limitations


May not be effective if:

  • You expect instant gratification.
  • You’re not clear about your core values.
  • You lack support or resources to work toward goals.

Evidence Base


Research shows:

  • Long-term goal pursuit builds well-being and reduces depression.
  • Values-based action increases meaning and satisfaction.
  • Regular engagement in meaningful activities strengthens resilience.

Further Reading


  • DBT Skills Training Manual by Marsha Linehan
  • The Happiness Trap by Russ Harris
  • ACT Mindfully

References


  • Linehan, M.M. (2015). DBT Skills Training Manual, Second Edition. Guilford Press.
  • Harris, R. (2008). The Happiness Trap. Trumpeter Books.
  • Seligman, M.E.P. (2011). Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Well-Being. Free Press.