Increase Positive Emotions (Long Term)
Definition
Increase Positive Emotions (Long Term) is a skill from the Emotion Regulation module of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) that focuses on building a life worth living by creating a sustained sense of fulfillment, satisfaction, and meaning over time.
Purpose
Used to:
- Reduce vulnerability to negative emotions and depression.
- Develop habits that bring ongoing joy and satisfaction.
- Support long-term mental health and resilience.
- Foster a sense of purpose and accomplishment.
When to Use
Use this skill when:
- You feel empty, numb, or directionless.
- You are ready to invest in long-term improvements.
- You want to create a more meaningful and satisfying life.
- You feel stuck in chronic dissatisfaction or boredom.
When Not to Use
Avoid using if:
- You are in acute crisis or overwhelmed (use distress tolerance first).
- You lack basic safety or stability (e.g., housing, sobriety).
- You need immediate relief from intense distress.
How-To
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Identify Values:
- Reflect on what matters most to you (e.g., family, learning, health).
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Set Long-Term Goals:
- Break down big dreams into clear, manageable objectives.
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Make a Plan:
- List steps to move toward your goals.
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Act Consistently:
- Schedule regular actions that align with your values.
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Track Progress:
- Notice small successes and adjust plans as needed.
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Reward Yourself:
- Reinforce positive steps with encouragement or treats.
Tips & Variations
- Be specific—vague goals are hard to achieve.
- Celebrate progress, not perfection.
- Pair this skill with Build Mastery to develop competence.
- Use a journal or app to monitor goals.
- Expect setbacks—it’s normal. Problem-solve instead of quitting.
Example
Maria valued creativity and connection.
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Values: Creativity, helping others.
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Goal: Volunteer to teach art.
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Steps:
- Research local nonprofits.
- Apply to volunteer.
- Schedule first class.
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Outcome: Over several months, Maria felt more fulfilled and proud.
Inventor / Origin
Developed by Marsha Linehan, PhD, as part of Dialectical Behavior Therapy’s Emotion Regulation skills.
Related Skills
- Build Mastery
- Accumulating Positive Emotions (Short Term)
- Cope Ahead
- Mindfulness of Current Emotions
Limitations
May not be effective if:
- You expect instant gratification.
- You’re not clear about your core values.
- You lack support or resources to work toward goals.
Evidence Base
Research shows:
- Long-term goal pursuit builds well-being and reduces depression.
- Values-based action increases meaning and satisfaction.
- Regular engagement in meaningful activities strengthens resilience.
Further Reading
- DBT Skills Training Manual by Marsha Linehan
- The Happiness Trap by Russ Harris
- ACT Mindfully
References
- Linehan, M.M. (2015). DBT Skills Training Manual, Second Edition. Guilford Press.
- Harris, R. (2008). The Happiness Trap. Trumpeter Books.
- Seligman, M.E.P. (2011). Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Well-Being. Free Press.